Ooh, a nice fat review :)

It's odd how the bits that people seem to like the most are the ones I was doubtful about, like 'I can't help being Barrayaran'.

I think the 'used to be bisexual' quip makes more sense if you parse the second part as 'but now he's Cordelia-sexual' :D, (Raiding DW fandom for how Rose-sexual Ten is each week)